Would you cry if you see me crying

Would you cry if you see me crying?

I saw this on a friend's Yahoo status. Some friend I don't even know much.

If I saw this some days ago, I would frown. I wouldn't like it. I wouldn't like the idea of spreading your sadness around. I would question: "why do you want your loved one to cry? Why do you ask the person to cry with you? You should have wanted the person to smile". I would much much prefer a brighter and happier version "Would you smile if you see me smiling?"

But by now, I kind of understand it. I realize that Life is not all about happiness. It really is not always a box of chocolates.

Smiling together with someone is so much easier than crying with them. Sharing happiness is freaking much easier than sharing pains.

But sharing pains is obviously more necessary.

I might not cry. I didn't really cry. But I did shared it with you, honestly. I might not understand everything, but I did feel it with you.

*Just a thought. Nothing much.

Haiz. Time to go home and I don't want to leave. Office is quite empty by now, only left with me and another colleague. Thinking about tonight makes me feel all tired and lazy. Anw, I promised yumi to come with her :((